Sofia in Switzerland

The Present

A Response To Mr. Hitt’s Words in RE: to the recent UCF Shooting

Dear Mr. Hitt,

Despite the fact that I am an attendant of Florida State University, I am greatly troubled by the tragedy that occurred yesterday on UCF’s campus. My thoughts and prayers are with the family of the deceased, as well as the students, staff, and faculty of UCF. 

Although, you, Mr. Hitt, may be enjoying your near half-million dollar salary, and may in fact think that only innocent victims deserve respect or privacy, there are others who do not share your position nor your opinion. Quite frankly, I am one of them. I do believe you said, of the shooting, “It’s a tragedy, but it’s not an unspeakable tragedy,”… Forgive me, Mr. President, but who gave you the authority to decide what kind of tragedy is deserving of privacy and respect? I believe that despite the fact that James may have had intentions to kill others, his life was still, and is still invaluable. Perhaps you could write a formal letter informing those of us who simply “do not know” that the proper etiquette for speaking about tragedies is simply dependent on whether or not those who were involved were, what… Innocent? Healthy? Undeserving? Please, I urge you: fill in the blank, because I clearly was not educated in a similar manner.

It is quite astonishing that someone with both a Master’s and a Ph.D. in physiological psychology can speak so harshly about what occurred. Of all the people who may have insight on those persons that are psychologically ill (and the resulting dysfunctional brain-behavior relationship), I would have expected you to speak with greater sympathy. 

Now, I myself do not study the English language and its nuances. However, from what little I know, I do recall that the word “but” is usually used to express a contrast. So, to say: “A life was lost, but it was the life of the perpetrator.” Really comes across as “A life was lost; however it was a life of little importance.” Or… “A life was lost; but hey, at least it was the life of a would be criminal.” 

Have you no compassion for James’ family? Have you forgotten that someone lost a son? Have you realized that there are several who are mourning his death?

The greatest tragedy in all of this, despite your inhumane words, is that James thought, believed, and was motivated by the idea that there was no other alternative to escape his struggle, whatever that may have been, than to kill himself.

I can’t. You must. I am Yours. Show me the way.

Archbishop Oscar Romero (via bannerofthecross)

(via lilythetruck)

Dear Jesus

Thank you for my life.

Love,

Sofia

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fathershane:

Okay, that was really cool.

Occasionally, you come across a friend:

  • who loves you just about no matter how much you put them through.
  • who asks about you when you haven’t made an effort to ask about them.
  • who stills carries on traditions that you two began together.
  • who loves you despite the distance you force between your relationship.

Occasionally, you may have the opportunity to know someone who will travel the world with you, cry on the couch with you, and jam out to music with you.

And if the occasion should arise, I think that you should get over your pride, and say thank you to that person for caring - despite not being cared for and for loving - despite not being loved.


Dear Megan,

I am sorry for not opening the door to my heart when your arms have been open wide to mine. And thank you for sticking around even though I didn’t.

Sofia

The two most important days in your life are the day you are born, and the day you figure out why.

Mark Twain  (via thenocturnals)

(Source: enicoleh, via afinefrenzy)

Those who can, do. Those who understand, teach.

Lee Shulman (1986)

When you realize you have an exam next week in a subject you really haven’t been paying attention to.